Fortunately, we did not have to awaken at the crack of dawn, but could enjoy the castle grounds and hospitality until around 10 o'clock, after the elegant breakfast.
We crossed the Rhine river, but it was not the picturesque image I've held in my mind after growing up with a painting in my parents' house of the Rheinstein Castle on the forested hillside overlooking the Rhine. (Note to self: Take the river cruise down the Rhine....)
The flight was uneventful but takes the prize for having the most crying and fussy babies and children that I've ever experienced. One little fellow around age 3 or so, who happened to be seated directly behind me, had a total meltdown. He kicked furiously at my seat back and, oddly enough, his mother and sole companion, wasn't admonishing him or apologizing to me. Her tone to him was soft and low. I turned around once to look at her and she did offer apology. She looked tired.... Carol and I looked at each other and had an epiphany: this was no typical tantrum and the mother knew she was powerless to calm the child. He was refusing to be belted into his seat when our captain so instructed us. Flight attendants came 'round at first with gentle, but authoritative direction, but then watchful silence and finally relenting to allow the mother to hold the child in her lap for the landing. He mostly quieted then. We were totally overcome with empathy and sympathy for this mom who, for whatever reasons, was traveling alone with a child likely labeled with a diagnosis. Upon landing, I reached to touch her arm and said simply, "Good luck to you..." A knowing glance passed between us....
The JFK experience was in a word, terrible! ...passing through customs was no problem, but after that terrible signage, confusing directions, tram to this terminal, no...that terminal....walk this long corridor, now walk outside across lanes of traffic (?) and finally to the correct Delta domestic commuter terminal. It was worse than any teeming bus station. The posted gate for our departing flight had been changed, the flight departure delayed for several announced reasons, some of which contradicted previous announcements. We worried that we would miss our connecting flight in Detroit that would bring us home to Nashville. We started bonding and commiserating with others on our flight, including a Nashville business man also making the transfer in Detroit as we were. Sarcasm and gallows humor sustained us. A young boy with limited English (age 10 or 12) traveling with his non-English speaking mother in head scarf, relied on us to help him know when to board. At our reassigned gate they loaded 2 or 3 flights scheduled to depart after ours, so it was very confusing and it was getting into evening of what had been a very long day. Finally, we boarded and then spent another hour waiting our turn to take off! Please, please, please, Delta. Hold that plane for us in Detroit! Luckily, they did and we finally boarded what would be the last plane of our final leg of this most extraordinary adventure/vacation!
Carol's husband Jody met us at BNA after midnight. We had been up now 24 hours. It was good to be home. For the entire trip, I had been suppressing concerns about my missing kitty, Spook. So, before I could collapse into bed, I was compelled to go out and walk the grounds at 1am, calling for him. No luck. Start the search tomorrow. Welcome back to reality.....
